I am 50

Now that is one old dude. Yes, I work out 5 days a week when I can, and holy shit is it fucking hard to do. Since Theresa past away the motivation has been extremely difficult to find. In the end, I rationalized that if I continued to work out, it would make me tired, and I would no longer think. So far it's worked. As my manager said during a lunch meeting "This guy came into the gym 3 times last week even when he was on vacation". Honestly I just wanted to fill my day.

At work, I found out that if it's your birthday, you have to buy donuts for your co-workers. I think the girl that told me that was lying. But I bought 2 dozen donuts and 2 packs of 20 timbits. When I arrived at the office, someone had put a ribbon on my door and a happy 50th on my door. I suspected it was the nice lady from accounting  - and I was right! I had bought $50 worth of chocolates from her daughter's fund raising. Her husband helped with the cake. I told her it was very touching and I appreciated it.

She won't tell me her birthday and I have to rely on co-workers to creep her facebook. I'm grateful people thought of me today.