Body Language, Women, and Attraction

A tilted head, framed face, all mean she's into you.

I've read up on body language for a few years now. I can pretty well pick up when a woman is interested in me. And most recently, I've had several woman get physically close to me.

A sure sign of attraction is when a woman will move her body closer to the object she likes. I've seen this happen many times, but it's very subtle. I know at least 2 women who do this to me to some varying degrees. I feel bad because they don't intentionally do this. It's natural human nature. So now I notice, but do nothing, and as long as there is no inappropriate touching, I'm ok with that.

I'm 5 months out from losing Theresa. While I don't cry every time I get home, I do have moments of intense pain. I still listen to her old voice mails and look at the books she's written in. I imagine what we'd be doing if she were alive today. But alas, she is safe now with her mother in a better place. In order to survive, I have to believe that.

To say I'm lonely would be an understatement of the year. I yearn for phone calls. And now I know what my mom felt like when her 2nd husband died, all alone, sitting, thinking. My cat has been wonderful. His affectionate personality is so closely mirrored after my wife.

Here are a few tips I can provide for body language and attraction:

Feet:

The feet always point to the heart's desire. A woman will always point her feet towards the person she likes.

Eyes:

Lingering eye contact builds up oxytocin, the love chemical. Attraction builds with increased eye contact.

Touch:

A woman will usually find ways to touch you. It will usually be a light glancing touch - example, a light tap on your arm, shoulder, or even the knee. I've had my hands touched, especially when I'm handing over a mobile device - our hands "seemingly touch" every time I had her the item. It's no coincidence. It's human nature and attraction. If you reciprocate the touch back, and she doesn't move back, this is a very good sign.

A woman will also self-touch such as her neck, which usually shows her exposing it to you. It's a sign of vulnerability and attraction. 

Voice, Mirroring:

A higher pitched voice, but she will also match and mirror your voice style.

Personal Questions, Remembering things:

When a woman asks you questions about yourself, and later you meet her again & she remembers and mentions it. This is no accident. She has carefully taken note of your interests, and to show appreciation to you, have brought it up in conversation again. It shows that she really cares about what you are doing.


Gifts

When a woman really likes you, she'll start by giving you small gifts. Things like food, treats, candy, or even a gag joke. And yes, I have received gifts from women. At first it was very strange because I have never really had anything happen to me like that before. And it gets weird if the woman is married.


Teasing

This one is easy. She always bugs you, finding ways to give gentle jabs at you. I notice this a lot with women. One of the best ways to test this is to see if she makes fun of you, or talks bad about you in any way in front of you.

Hugs

If a woman starts to hug you, or even if she did it once... you can absolutely bet she wants to do that again. It will usually be a friendly non-sexual hug, but it may linger slightly. When this happens you are unknowingly breaking the touch barrier in a huge way. Women never hug people they don't like.