Light Shining Through Darkness

 

From this morning shot with the iPhone 12 max pro. 

As I sit here eating this disgusting tasty bag of Old Dutch Arriba Creamy Guacamole taco chips, I think back to this morning when I was given a small treat by a co-worker. To be honest I was surprised. She gave me a tiny donut called a Timbit.

After I thanked her, I confronted her jokingly and asked "Why are you being so nice to me?"

She laughed and said "I'm not. And don't think that your anyone special."  and walks away. 

But she had been nicer - incrementally that is. She made a point to say good morning to me. She checked me out head to toe with her eyes. 

When a woman gives you a gift: Whether it be food, candy, toys, OG Kush, or a coffee - it's a sign she likes you. 

If she takes time to dress up, and look good - take notice. One easy sign is physical touch. 

People will naturally get closer to those they are attracted to. One peculiar behavior I have noticed in women is on public transit. I would be either sitting or standing in the train, and a woman would enter from the far side. 

Over the next few stops, she would get closer to me. Eventually her leg would be touching mine. And yes, some of this can be attributed to traffic congestion and flow in the train. As a man on a train, you never need to worry about being touched. 

This is why when I do get touched either accidentally or intentionally, it gets my attention. It can happen anywhere: Work, stores, restaurants, public transit, concerts, etc. 

A young woman had leaned into my back with her shoulder. As I was sitting on the c-train bench, I felt her weight being pressed into my back. 

She continued leaning into me, until the last stop, giving a shove to me and leaving the train. That lovely event happened before the global pandemic.

She was cute though.